going exclusive with a guy

ExclusiveJust recently I went on a few dates with a guy I met at my gym. We got on super well. One night he had me over for dinner and had cooked roast veggies and marinated chicken. He had even taken note of my favourite drink and had purchased it to go along with our meal.

We saw each other or text each other every day for over a week. The only problem was that we hadn’t had ‘the talk’. So I wasn’t sure where we stood. Were we just getting to know each other and would we see what happens? Or was it more than that and was it ‘exclusive’? I wasn’t sure and I had a couple of other guys who wanted to catch up with me.

I didn’t want to assume anything so I decided I would ask. His reply went something like this “Yeah for sure .. Well I know I have feelings for you .. And I enjoy being with you also .. I suppose if u feel the same we can make it exclusive hey.. But only if thats what you want x”

So I have a boyfriend!! Wow it’s been awhile since I dated someone! I was excited & nervous all at the same time.

I text a good friend to tell her my news and she said “you have a boyfriend!!! I have to meet him”

So the newly formed couple were chatting and getting to know each other when something big came up. It was a game changer.

I knew my bf had kids from a previous relationship, but what I didn’t realise was that he didn’t want to get married or have any more children.

And well seen as though I have never been married and I don’t have any children, I would definitely love to have both one day.

We realised then and there that this wasn’t going to work. We both wanted different things.

So I was exclusive with a guy for one whole hour!

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