how long do you wait?

I think everyone has their own opinion on how long you should wait before sleeping with someone.

Just recently I met a guy for the first time and we grabbed a bite to eat. At the end of the evening he wanted to know when he could see me again? I said I didn’t have much planned for the next few nights. So he said “well maybe I could drive your way tomorrow and we can watch a movie or something”.

So on our second date, we went for dinner. Then there was this big push for me to sleep with him. I said “I don’t sleep around”. But over the course of the evening he would have tried more than five times. It was actually almost awkward how forward and pushy this guy was.

sexI have a friend who waits two months before she will sleep with a new partner and then before she does she makes them go and get tested to make sure they don’t have an STD.

Then I have another friend who didn’t sleep with anyone until she go married in her early thirties. Her rule was “he can touch me neck up and knees down”.

So two dates in two days and then I never heard from this guy again. Definitely not a keeper. And I’m glad I didn’t give in to his constant pressure!

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